Ok now that im here i might aswell post what i wanted to post. i have many ideas that would (atleast temporarily) improve the state of this clan, i know a couple online games (which ive already mentioned before at some point) where there is no sign up, just make a lobby and send a link to whoever you want to play with:
Cards against humanity clone:
https://pyx-1.pretendyoure.xyz/zy/game.jsp
Uno:
https://pizz.uno/
Monopoly:
https://www.webopoly.org/
Catan/Colonist:
https://colonist.io/
Gartic phone:
https://garticphone.com/ (this one is really funny trust me

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there is several other online games out there but we could try something very different and hook up in discord voice chat and play some of these games if u want

unfortunately monopoly and uno is 4 players maximum, catan would be 4 but i bought a couple expansions (i play it alot with discord friends) to make it max 8 players. the other 2 websites are infinite/too much to matter max players.
as for ET, well there isnt really much that can be done outside of playing on the servers regularly (which im not doing myself tbh) and having a positive atmosphere but also i would suggest that because ofc this is the internet, there is going to be dramas and conflict. i think the best way to handle that drama myself is to simply not care as much about it as we do anymore

not necesarily meaning we shouldnt try to solve it though but more like we should just accept/acknowledge that there will be dramas and there isnt a need to be freaking out over it because by freaking out and saying something like "stop you guys you are being stupid!" or something like that to the people who are arguing, you are adding yourself to the drama and giving it power that you so badly want it to not have. this has probably been said several times already in the past but its worth reminding that you should think about if trying to control a drama would make it worse before actually getting involved.
i know this post is more about my feelings and isnt really much about ET but i feel like if we get together (not forcing it ofc) and play some games it will improve the connections within the memberbase of TWC. ofc the same could be said about playing ET more often with eachother.