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22-03-2017, 01:39 AM
(22-03-2017, 12:37 AM)Makez Wrote: Hey Cross, I've now been following this topic for a few days without commenting on it. This post is just going to be based on my personal opinion, NOT the absolute truth. I have kind of mixed feelings about the whatsapp discussion where Meagain and Slasher said something that probably should have not been said. From your side I totally understand the struggle you have been going through in real life and then this discussion gets revealed. It must have felt horrible reading from that screenshot and it must have had an effect on mental health of yours.
Personally I've learned that you should never take ANYTHING too seriously that you see via internet. Even though the guys that talked behind your back have been in this same "family" for a long time with you, they still are people that live thousands of kilometers away from you and should not really have proper effect with your real life happenings. It's good to have some kind of filter in your mind when you read/hear text in the internet. If someone in the internet says "go kill yourself", then you should be able to just ignore that guy and laugh about it. Of course it must be difficult to do that IF you actually have malicious thoughts about yourself.
As far as I have learned during my short 20 year life, some people get along with others, some people don't. Our "family" has always had people from different cultures around the world that have completely different views. I don't personally feel offended if someone in internet tells me that "I should go kill myself", but most people probably would. Back in the day when Snacky released your story, many people that I know including myself thought about it in a manner of attention seeking. I still believe that story should've not been published and just kept between you and your best TWC buddies behind closed doors. That kind of story is what the "trolls" feed on and make jokes about.
As I said earlier, this is MY personal opinion on this matter. I didn't mean to offend ANYONE with this post.
-Makez
People are different, and some people are actually not able to shrug stuff like that off just like that. It's good on you if you can, but some actually mentally can't, which isn't their fault, it just happens to be that way.
Which means it's not as easy as you say here, sometimes what happens is you have people around who don't seem to grasp that stuff together with a louder voice than the ones who CAN.